By Stephanie Boucher, Registered Psychotherapist | The Mindful Loft Many people who discover a partner’s infidelity describe symptoms that look a lot like trauma: flashbacks, intrusive images, a racing heart, sleep disruption, and hypervigilance that will not switch off. This does not mean you are weak, dramatic, or “crazy.” It
By Stephanie Boucher, Registered Psychotherapist | The Mindful Loft The short version: If you have been cheated on, one of the most painful questions is usually: Did they ever love me? Cheating is not always a clean answer to that question. It often tells you more about the person who
Trust is the cornerstone of any healthy relationship. When it’s broken, it can feel as though the foundation of your life has crumbled. As someone who specializes in betrayal trauma and relational wounds, I’ve witnessed the profound impact of betrayal—not just in romantic partnerships but also in the context of
By Stephanie Boucher, Registered Psychotherapist | The Mindful Loft The short version: When a partner cheats and then keeps denying cheating, the denial can hurt more than the affair itself. The affair breaks your trust in your partner. The denial goes further. It asks you to stop trusting your own
