Signs of Emotionally Immature Parents: A Checklist

By Stephanie Boucher, Registered Psychotherapist | The Mindful Loft The short version: Emotionally immature parents are not always cruel, neglectful, or obviously harmful. Many are loving in some ways and limited in others. This checklist is meant to help you notice the pattern more clearly: what the parent does, how the relationship tends to function, […]
How to Set Boundaries With an Emotionally Immature Parent

By Stephanie Boucher, Registered Psychotherapist | The Mindful Loft The short version: A boundary is not a rule you hand someone else to follow. It is a decision about what you will do when the line is crossed. You can tell your parent what you need, but you cannot make them understand it, like it, […]
Understanding Childhood Trauma: How Therapy Can Jumpstart Your Healing Journey

By Stephanie Boucher, Registered Psychotherapist | The Mindful Loft The short version: Therapy for childhood trauma is not about excavating the past for its own sake. It is about understanding how the past is still running parts of your present, and having a space, possibly for the first time, to sit with that honestly. This […]